About Work With Me Coaching Resources Products
Contact
Work with me

Do You Want to Want Intimacy Again—Without Feeling Pressured to Have Sex? 

 

If you feel numb, overstimulated, or just over it when it comes to intimacy, you’re not broken. 💖

You’re just exhausted—from managing everything, meeting everyone else’s needs, and feeling the invisible pressure to want intimacy when you simply… don’t. (Ugh, so frustrating, right?)

 

I help busy women and femmes who feel disconnected from their desire, stuck in their heads, and guilty for saying no to sex, to finally want intimacy again—without the pressure to have sex you don't actually want to have. 🎉

 

Unlike traditional advice that tells you to “just try harder” (as if that ever worked 🙄), my approach centers on your experience of pleasure in and out of the bedroom.

I help you reconnect with your body—not to “fix” yourself, but because feeling good in your own skin is the key to wanting intimacy again.

When you shift from forcing sex to feeling pleasure you actually want, intimacy stops being something you “should” do and starts being something you want to do. 💖

Here's Why I Am So Passionate About Helping Women Become Empowered in Their Sexuality

 

Like so many women, I spent my 20s thinking that I was broken for not wanting sex as often as my partner did.

I also struggled with setting boundaries (hello, people-pleasing 🙋‍♀️), communicating what I actually wanted and saying no to what I didn't want, and managing all the big, messy emotions that come with intimate relationships.

Instead of feeling connected to my partner, I often felt shut down, overwhelmed, and stuck in my own head. 😩

I thought if I just tried harder—read the books, followed the online advice, ignored my own needs—it would just click.

Spoiler alert: it didn’t. 🚨

It wasn’t until I worked with a relationship coach that everything changed.

Through coaching, I learned the magic sauce of intimacy: it’s not just about sex—it’s about connection to my body, my desires, and my pleasure first. 💡

When I started communicating openly, setting boundaries that actually felt good, and learning how to receive pleasure instead of just giving, everything shifted.

My relationships became deeper, intimacy felt easier, and I finally stopped feeling broken.

 

💕 Now, I help other women do the same—because you don’t have to figure this out alone. 

 

 

➡️ You deserve to feel connected to and confident about your desires (in and out of the bedroom).

 

➡️ If you’re ready to transform your love-life, I’m here to guide you every step of the way.

Ready to feel good in your skin and confident in the bedroom?

 

Here's a Few Ways I Can Help You...

Intimacy Coaching For Women

 

💖 The Desire Revival Package

 

Want to want intimacy again—without pressure, guilt, or obligation?

 

If you feel disconnected from your desire, stuck in your head, and exhausted from always doing—this is for you.

In this 3-month coaching journey, you’ll learn how to:
✨ Reconnect with your body so intimacy feels natural, not forced.
✨ Shift from “doing” to “feeling” so you can actually enjoy intimacy.
✨ Release guilt, shame, and pressure so sex stops feeling like a chore.
✨ Rediscover your unique pleasure—on your terms.

By the end, you’ll go from disconnected and overwhelmed to feeling alive, confident, and in touch with your pleasure again. 

 

💌 Ready to feel good in your body and crave intimacy again?

Tell me more

Intimacy Coaching For Women

 

💖 The Ultimate Pleasure Package

 

From Disconnected & Numb to Confident, Empowered, and Fully Alive in Your Pleasure in Just 6 Months

 

Over 6 months, we’ll go beyond quick fixes and surface-level tips. You’ll rewire how you experience pleasure, release deep-seated shame, and step into the most confident, secure version of yourself—one who is fully in touch with her body and her desires.

In this transformative journey, you’ll learn how to:
🔥 Reclaim your body as a source of pleasure—not just something to give to others.
🔥 Dismantle old beliefs about sex, intimacy, and worthiness so you stop feeling guilt or pressure.
🔥 Develop unshakable confidence in your pleasure, your boundaries, and what you need.
🔥 Shift from obligation to deep desire—so intimacy is something you actually crave.
🔥 Reconnect with your sensuality daily so passion feels natural, not forced.


By the end of 6 months, you’ll feel empowered, confident, and secure in your body and pleasure. You won’t just want intimacy—you’ll own your desires without guilt, pressure, or hesitation.

 

💌 Ready to transform?

Tell me more

Take The First Step Towards Increasing Your Libido... for Only $27!

 

💖 How to Reconnect With Your Body and Rediscover Pleasure in 30-Days

 

This gentle, self-paced, science-backed course focuses on reconnecting with your body and your experience of pleasure (in and out of the bedroom) as the first step towards increasing your libido naturally. 

 

If you're tired of: 

➡️ Putting everyone else's needs before your own

➡️ Feeling like sex and intimacy is a chore

➡️Being too exhausted everyday to even think about intimacy

 

Then this course is for you! Click below to learn more 👇🏼

Tell me more

Get the Intimate Connection You Crave Today

 

💫 Want deeper connection, meaningful intimacy, and a sex life that actually feels fulfilling? 

I’ve got you! When we work together, you’ll get a step-by-step guide to how you can increase your desire for sex (without medication or hormones), how to rediscover pleasure in your body, and what your turn on's are. 💕

No fluff—just practical tools, actionable strategies, and personalized support to help you create real, lasting change.

✨ Because intimacy should feel good—not like another thing on your to-do list. 

Tell me more →

"You make me feel comfortable talking about vulnerable things." -- Sarah T.

"I felt scared to talk to someone about my intimate problems, but Blu made it feel really safe and like she actually cared about me." -- Jenn K.

7

years of
experience

150+

couple clients
served

200+ 

individual clients
served

Why trust me?

Because I Get It.

I know what it’s like to feel disconnected, to wonder if something is wrong with you, and to struggle with intimacy feeling more like a chore than a source of joy.

And I also know how incredible it feels to break free from that cycle and rediscover pleasure, confidence, and real connection. 💫

I’ve spent 7+ years as a Certified Sex Therapist and Licensed Mental Health Counselor helping women move past guilt, sexual shame, and frustration in their relationships to creating relationships that actually feel good for them.

This work isn’t just my profession—it’s my passion. I love talking about intimacy, learning about it, and helping women experience it in a way that feels fulfilling and natural.

 

And here’s the thing—I don’t just teach this. I live it. I practice the same tools I share with my clients because I believe in them.

 

I know firsthand that when you prioritize emotional intimacy, communication, and pleasure without pressure, everything shifts.

 

When you work with me, you get:


💖 A judgment-free, supportive space to explore what you truly want.
💖 Practical strategies that actually work—no fluff, no pressure.
💖 A coach who genuinely cares about your growth, your confidence, and your happiness.

 

If you're ready to feel desired, connected, and fully yourself in your relationship again, I’m here to help you make that happen. 💕

show me how